Firstly, we're sorry to hear you're disappointed. We value each of our members and want you to have the best experience on Christian Connection.
For many members the site has helped them to create new friendships, networks and in several cases long term relationships and marriages. Inevitably for other members there has been disappointment with the site or with other members. It's often the case that some members join with great enthusiasm but get quickly discouraged. It's fair to say that things do come to those who wait.
Or it may be that Christian Connection is not the right route for everyone. There are other ways to meet single Christians (Christian Clubs, agencies etc., though we do believe that Christian Connection can offer wonderful opportunities and we encourage people to use the site to its best advantage.
Members who have made friends or met their partners through Christian Connection often tell us the following:
We at Christian Connection are not relationship experts and do not give advice.
The Discussion Boards can be a good place to discuss experiences with others who may share your issues or be able to advise.
If you would like professional help on how to improve your profile or write to others, you could go to www.e-cyrano.com
Christian Connection takes the security of the site and its members seriously. If another member is acting inappropriately there are a whole range of steps you can take:
Whether at Church, at work or on a website, there are sadly people who can deceive, who can harass and who simply fail to live up to expectations. The fact that they may be active Christians in a well established Church can feel disappointing or even shocking. But it won't be the first time that Christians have failed to live up to expectations. In every Church or Christian group there are likely to be individuals who are not what they seem or do not live out ‘the Christian Life'.
The vast majority of people who join the site every day cause no problems, however every so often somebody does turn up who needs removing – fast.
Some members blame themselves if a member behaves badly to them. But in the vast majority of cases, people who behave badly to one person repeat the same behavior to others.
In other cases what some people consider perfectly acceptable language and behavior, can cause others deep offense. We have people from a wide range of traditions, life styles and views and even values.
We pride ourselves in creating a safe online community for all our members. But if you have experienced problems we'll do what we can to help. Write to us and let us know.
We hope the information on this page has been helpful. We would be interested your feedback. If, after reading this, there is something you want to let us know, please contact us.